Its all over
At our last church board meeting I talked about reviewing this past years work of the deacons - so that they will be accountable. It passed well except for one deacon. The same one that we had trouble with about a month ago. He really did not want to be accountable for his work. Saying that he does his ministry for Jesus…… I would not step down from my view of being accountable. I told the deacons that this would also be a good time for them to speak to me about my ministry. There was a deadlock, so I said that we have a problem. We all tried to get him to acknowledge that it wasen’t such a bad thing, that we find accountability all over in the Bible - but to no avail. I told him not to take a decision before a week, not to rush but to take time to think. The following Sunday I asked him to tell me after the meeting when we would meet, that I would like to talk to him. He left Church without giving me a date. He did not come in that evening (he usually does). He did not call me to give me a date when we could meet but he came to the church two days later. I was busy I could not receive him - so we made a rendez-vous for the next day. When we finally met we spoke for about an hour. He was very calm but had not changed his mind. So he resigned of all his functions. He was not mad or anything like that. He was very open and honest about not wanting to be evaluated. We prayed and shook hands - there was nothing I could do - his ears were not open. Later in prayer I thanked the Lord for the way things had worked out - God sometimes does things in surprising ways and this is one of them.
I don’t comment on your entries usually, but I do read them. I think they’re all really interesting, I like being able to sort of see what can go on behind the scenes in a church.
Comment by Gabrielle — March 28, 2007 @ 8:49 pm